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title: "One-to-ones that surface problems early"
url: https://manasdasgupta.com/writing/one-to-ones-that-work/
description: "A simple structure for engineering manager one-to-ones that finds problems while they are still small."
author: Manas Dasgupta
last_verified: 2026-09-24
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# One-to-ones that surface problems early

> **Bottom line:** A good one-to-one belongs to the report, not the manager. Let them set the agenda, spend most of the time on what is blocking or bothering them, and keep status updates out. Hold it weekly, never cancel twice in a row, and write down what you agreed.

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## Whose meeting is it?

The one-to-one belongs to the person reporting to you. They bring the agenda; you bring attention.

## What to leave out

Status updates belong in team channels. If a one-to-one becomes a status meeting, the problems that need privacy never come up.

## Three questions that work

1. What is getting in your way this week?
2. What is one thing I could do differently?
3. What are you thinking about for your growth?

## Key takeaway

Consistency matters more than technique: a weekly one-to-one that always happens beats a perfect one that often gets cancelled.